the pain felt through someone else

by dontyoubringmedown
Sometimes its so hard. When one of your really good friends is going through something really hard, like umm her boyfriend breaking up with her. Dude, this girl got so attached to this guy. I mean, who wouldnt. He was everything she wanted him to be. But seriously, he broke up with her because he was so stressed about SATs and stuff. That is such bullshit. Im sorry, but it is. But yah, Isa, if you read this, just be strong...everythings gonna be alright. I just feel so helpless. There is nothing I can do.
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When friends go through tough times, we go through them with them.I hope things get better for you and your friend.
[Anonymous]
"losing hope is easy, when your friend is gone" Thanks for not letting me lose hope Anda. -Isa
[Anonymous]
consider his sudden change of emotions to be truthful... rather than belittling it and disguising it under the "bullshit" category. i've been in situations such as your friend, so i feel i have ample say in the matter... it's going to be tough, but give him time--to perhaps realize his error. if not, move on. he's not worth your friend's time if in fact his "stress" excuse proves false. take care. - dan -
consider his sudden change of emotions to be truthful... rather than belittling it and disguising it under the "bullshit" category. i've been in situations such as your friend, so i feel i have ample say in the matter... it's going to be tough, but give him time--to perhaps realize his error. if not, move on. he's not worth your friend's time if in fact his "stress" excuse proves false. take care. - dan -