ok well i know this is petty but i hate when ppl make me keep my promises and then they blow theirs like its no deal. like my parents, they THROW it in my face every single time i say something, and i dont do it...yet they promise me things and dont follow through. my mom almost died ((actually she did for a while)) when she had her surgery in march, and she promised never to have a ciggarette in her life again ((because the docs said thats what made her stop breathing)). she did really well, and didnt have one for about 2 weeks, and that was great because she had been smoking for 32 years and she just quit. she had like one every 2 weeks and her and my dad both quit for almost 2 months and then they had a 'relapse' and havent quit since. that was like 3 weeks ago. my mom even talked to me in this long, emotional coversation about how she felt about smoking and quitting and everything, and she KNOWS how much it bothers me, and she knows its hurting me and my brother, and thats another reason why she said she wouldnt anymore because me and my brother have told her to stop since we were old enough to know what it was. we always used to tell her what we learned in school about it and everything and she never cared what we thought, as long as she had a ciggarette. and then just sunday night my dad AND mom were like we are putting on patches tomorrow and quitting...and now today they are in their office puffing away. i wish they wouldnt even tell me because they let me down again. this just makes me think about how much ppl say and dont do it. it makes me sad that ppl cant just say whats up, and what they are TRUTHFULLY going to do.