So he calls and my first thought is "ok , he is going to change our plans" I answer and hear his mumbeling makes me think " he is trying to be fuuny". He then slurs a little and says "Angela?". Then I know He is drunk. Our conversation contiues and my additude becomes snappy because no body wants to talk to someone who repeats themselves a thousand times. At this point I am contimplating hanging up the phone. He doesnt even try to be a parental figure he is a child , a child who knows nothing about me. At this rate he will never know me... not the real me. He then puts on his little guilt trip about how he thinks that I am not including him in my life...HE LIVES IN EDMONTON!!! He is never around He hasnt been around my whole life! Why should I drop everything for him , why! Because he has "changed" ? He hasn't changed a bit he is exactly the same... He expects to be my father figure when he can't even get to know me. Calling me when he is piss drunk is not making a good impression.. well Maybe I will never know what having a father is like ... but at least I can say I tried. 1) He doesnt know me' 2) everytime I see him it is like meeting his all over again 3)and i just don't give a shit I am almost 16 and he has just become interested in my life why ? love ya'll