bf and gfs in highschool are ultimately all for nothing. the way people look at it is all distorted. i shouldnt say all for nothing but let me explain. the guy is always going to be jealous of the girl because of all the things she does without him ie:talks to other guys hangs out with other girls and guys is busy with other things .. the girl is always jealous of the guy in some way or another because of the same reasons.. there are tooo many people between now and when u get married to have a gf or bf in highschool.. i mean.. if ur dating in highschool ur prolly not going to end up together, and even the hope that u will is honest but u may miss out on a lot, and then some people think maybe ill be happier with this other person (assuming u rnt having ne serious problems with ur current bf/gf)"hey what if i break up with him or her and date this person" but it will throw u back into the same situation u are in now(that is if u were just looking for change, not necessarily a better person), in a few months. ur back in a relationship u fall in love or wutever.. physical thing is always there .. its natural for everyone to want a bf or gf deep down just cuz its human nature as well as to want sex or wutever, its always gunna be there, to say guys are obsessed with sex now, just shows u that they show it more then women but everyone wants to get theirs and they shouldnt until they get older ONLY because they prolly wont stay with the one person they are with now and will cause so much heartbreak in the future because of all the things in life u go through before u settle down.. and people get hurt because they think their partner is forever and in somecases is. its bound to happen some sort of break up and it may put u with a different lover. Ultimately, a bf or gf in highschool can be good if u both understand this and u dont let jealousy overcome, u discuss ur views on how far you will go, and you relax, come to eachother as BEST FRIENDS when u need to talk or wutever and have someone there for you but not Consumbed by only eachother.If u fall in love and one day its ment to be. ull get married.. but if u dont... be a little easy going about it and dont alter ur whole life around a relationship.** then if it ends,you wont have the "god they were everything i may as well die" thing going on. unno? if i fall in love, ill know that all i want is the best for my gf... and if we break up, as long as shes happy then im happy.. and if i get fucked over ill be sad but thats life. all you can do is hope happieness on someone dont try and make THEM your happiness when the person shouldnt be what ur happienss is. dont FORCE happiness through a relationship. just hope for them to be happy and try and be happy. ...hmm, maybe eveeerything i said is thrown down the drain when u think ur truly in love and nothing else matters to you?... S.I.T., you decide.