Tonight, I was completely caught off guard. A quarter carat diamond pendant in order to make the engagement official. - i have always seen my future with you and you know what? you make me want to be a mother, and that frightens me. with you i'd want to behave like a good house wife, and that is very unlike me. that is really sweet, but i shot gun to be the stay at home parent! my ocd will leave us with a clean house, and i'll get to work on my cooking! there is no need to be afraid, babe.