how is it that i try not to get in the middle of this situation between you two and yet here i am talking to both of you because neither one of you are mature enough to actually talk? how is it that i hate her so much and yet im the link between you both? how is it that she can ask me about you and try to talk to me when in the begining she called me the home wrecker? how is it that it seems like my fault for being there from the start? how does this shit happen??