I don't think I should have to have any expectations put on me. I really don't. Unless I am doing a job, or have promised someone something, I don't think putting any expectation on me isn't fair, expecially if you don't tell me what they are. I mean, if you want something from me, you expect something from me and you don't tell me, how am I ever going to live up to that? And if I don't live up to this notion how am I going to ever pass muster? All it does it make everyone feel painfully stupid in the end because you had this expectations and I didn't live up to them, evne though I didn't know they were there. So there's something to remember. If you expect something from someone, tell them. That way someone can tell you whether or not you can live up to it. Sometimes people can't, or don't want to live up to any expectation. Just so ...disheartened right now. I'm not perfect, I never wanted to be, I don't like to try and live up to an ideal because I know I never can. I'm just me.