So i spent time with my mom this weekend and i found somethings out that i have never knew before... first i talked to my mom and she said that she wont let them operate on me unless its needed, and so that makes me feel better about my thyroid. then we got in this conversation abou tandy...for those who dont know him he was the guy who malested me and christine...and well we talked about it and my mom started to cry. then we started talking about my biological father and well i told her i want to find him, adn she said that she saw him in houghton lake a while ago...nice to know mom! lol! well so i am now on a search to find him and invite him to my graduation. it would be nice to actually talk to him about things and not my mom.