all these girls that think the only way their ever going to be happy is to find some fairytail kind of amazing guy. and i'm not gonna lie.. i used to be the same way. and you would think that because i have found an amazing guy that i wouldn't still think that way. but it doesn't take a genius to know that that's not what it's all about. who cares if you have a boyfriend? who cares if guys even like you? i know, i know. boys are more fun. so you can't just have guy friends and be happy with that? what about the girls. how do you think your "sisters" feel when you aren't happy because you don't have a guy that can be there for you. they're there for you. aren't they? they care about you, they love you. do they not? i know, it's not the same way a boy could love you.. unless you're a lesbian/bi. but seriously.. having a boyfriend isn't easy. but being single.. you have the freedom to flirt with whoever you want, hug whoever you want, hang out with anyone you want to. and you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself. and maybe your parents. but when you have a boyfriend that flirting and hugging has to come to a stop. or atleast turned down about fiftybazillion notches. and hanging out with all your guy friends.. well your boyfriend better know the guys. otherwise it's assumed that you're cheating. trust me. been there, hated that. and now my fingers hurt so i'm going to stop typing.....