I tell everyone that encounters a situation like this the same story: It's just some good old heartbreak. It's not a bad thing, no. People are too hard on the break up. Treat it like its a cancer or something. It's liberation. The single life, the hunt, is not glorious at all. It's a deep, slow, lonely hell that nobody wants to be in. But given the choice between it and a stagnant relationship, the only smart choice is to be single. "All I look for in a relationship is to remain utterly alone" - Alan Shore .Steve