What do you do when you like a guy, but you're not sure if he likes you? Should you take your chances and push it a little, or stand back and wait for him to come to you, (which you are worried may never happen)? And then there's another guy who you don't like as much as the first but is more likely to say, date you. Should you pursue him and just forget about the first because he's not as intersted? Life is extremely confusing. I don't know what to do about my friend. She needs some help forgetting about a guy who broke her heart and is wrenching it out with a chain-saw. I don't know how to help her. I kind of feel that maybe I should go talk to the guy but I don't think that will accomplish anything. I want a guy to like me, but not be obsessed with me. I had a guy who was litterally obsessed with me to an unhealthy level and it irritated me beyond reason. He was always hanging on me like he didn't have a life outside of being with me. I dumped him because I felt restricted. But now I want a guy to like me and it seems like there are no prospects. I repeat, life is confusing and I just with something would go better. -Myth