i dont understand why people start problems that can only end in pain. it bothers me when people look to me for sympathy for problems they intiated. everything that goes wrong in your life is your fault or beyond your control, just deal with it. im sick of my friends complaining about how they guy they like is pissed at them when you stalk, pester, and say stupid stuff to him, things may go wrong. yeah, whatever, all my relationships are dysfunctional anyway whythe hell would anyone take my advice?