would you make sacrifices for someone if it made them happy or feel comfortable? would you do something for them if they asked you to because you knew in your mind that it would make them happy and comfortable and secure and stable? what would your limits be? and how would you set those? what is the difference between "controlling" and just asking for a favor? twisting words, trying to explain whats right but the other not listening and continuing to twist the words, refusing to compromise and continue with what should be made right or making the other happy/comfortable/secure. we all have to make sacrifices in our lives for others, why can't some people just accept it and just do it? and maybe sometimes its just when you need to let things go, when you really dont want to. or maybe its when those people are there to wake you up, to make you a better person. whichever it is, i cant decide right now and i dont know what to do but be frustrated and pissy and whiney.