Responsibility. The concept of stupidity kicking you in the butt? If you dont mess up, no reprocussion. If you do, stand there and face the monster you've created, no matter how ugly. Ive learned that you can only pass blame so much until you have nothing left to pass it upon. Nothing besides yourself.Nobody to blame but yourself. Responsibility causes us to be accountable, to pay for our wrongdoings, and to clean up behind ourselves. Realizing that a lot of stuff that goes wrong actually is your fault will cause you to change what youre doing. Quickly. Those who do not change will regret their entire lives. The older we get the more responsible we get, as cliche as it is, its true. The older we get the more we realize why we do what we do. Our reasons may not improve for doing something but we are still more aware of our motives. And even when we mess up, rather than pass the blame, we stand and face what we have coming, good or bad. This is because our actions in our heads have been justified. Everything we do, although justifiable to ourselves, may not be correct but we are all always learning. We eventually learn that responsibility should not be accompanied by regret.