Read me!!...What to do?

Listening to: In class...
Feeling: confused
OK...so I was thinking about transfering to a different school! I really want to! Community college is ok, but its time for me to go out and see what a university is about. I told my mom, and she thinks it a good idea. The only reason i didnt want to go to a University in the beginning was because i didnt want my mom to have to pay...its expensive! But she said she is willing and i think i want to give it a shot. My friend "John" is telling me how I am grown up now and its time for me to move out and be on my own. He was saying how i dont wanna be living at home when i'm 23 and thats so true. I know that if i transfer and move out, my mom is gonna help me. Now I have another friend, yeah he doesnt like the idea at all. He said that he has been on his own and he knows whats it like and its sucks. That he would do anything to go back home. But its different! I mean he moved out and got his own apartment and got a job and everything...his parents didnt help him. My mom is gonna support me the whole way. I mean i want to make a new life for myself. But just everyone is tellimg me that im wrong and they're telling me what to do and frankly i dont know what the hell i want to do now! Help me please!!!
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i think u should do what u think is best.There is pro's and con's for everything.Moving out is a big step and im sure its hard to learn to support urself.but then if u move out u become independent and it feels great.I myself want to move out as quick as possible.but thats just me just take some time and think about what u want not what other people want u to do.
[Anonymous]
it's nice to be out of the house but i know for sure that won't happen my frosh year of college. in my case, i'm fortunate to have the parents back me up - just as long as i get good grades, though. but i agree w/[carlito], do what you'll feel comfortable with
[Anonymous]
If your mother is willing to help pay, then I would to to a university. One of my best friends is going to a junior college and she hates it. She wishes she would have just gone to a four-year university.

But you must do what you think is right. You can get all the advice in the world, but you have to decide for yourself.

Have a great day.

*Ash