i'm getting tons of attention from my guy friend still. we talked about me and how i don't like hooking up with friends or guys that i would potentially get attached to. he was like well friends with benefits is a fun thing. i could fall for him, but if he's going to just want benefits then no. i have benefits with guys, but not guys that are good friends of mine ya know. i used to have a crush on him years ago and nothing became of it. i don't want to develop a crush on him again just because he suddenly likes me. but dang i really want to get with him all of the sudden. damn him and his giving me so much attention. yes i luv the attention but its hard to read him. like yeah he wants to get with me (he has openly said it) but does he actually have feelings for me? i don't want to just ask him, because that would make me look as if i too like him. hmmm. people are so confusing (myself included). what to do, what to do?!?!