few things in life... 1. its too short for silly little bickering, too short to fall out with someone then make up with them again, so if you fall out with someone make sure its for good... its a hard decision but if you cant forgive someone then dont. dont forgive them bcoz their a friend of a friend, or coz it would make things easy make your decision based on what your heart feels... 2. keep your friends close to you, u never know if/when you'll need them and if their true friends THEY WILL BE THERE for you. 3. when it comes to relationships, dont go with someone to pass the time, or to fulfill certain deeds, go with them because u like the person they are, because u can see good times ahead of you, this might seem like your "investing your love" but its worth it.... if somethings worth fighting for, fight, until the death, DONT EVER BACK DOWN because it might be the easy route, walk to the corners of the earth for them, beat the crap outta someone for them do whatever it takes...