What posesses a person to be a complete douchebag without any real reason?

I just had my life threatened by a friend's boyfriend. He's angry because her and I almost slept together shortly before he and her got together. You read correctly, he's angry because we ALMOST (but DID NOT) have sex BEFORE the two of them became a couple. To top it off, when the sex ALMOST happened, this guy was in a COMITTED RELATIONSHIP with a completely DIFFERENT girl. And he feels the need to threaten me, one of her oldest friends? What the fuck is going on in this guy's head? What the fuck is going on in her head, dating a guy like this?

In other news... apparently Dave is going to be going to Shambhala. All of Kat's friends are pissed about it, because we all know this means that he's going to be dogging her like a lost puppy the whole time.... we're not going to get to enjoy being around our friend because her boyfriend is going to be hovering around her. I doubt I would have spent much time around her anyways, but I can totally see why Katie and Lexie would be choked about it all. Lexie's so choked about it that she's actually going to find a different ride to Sham, and taking me with her... she fucking hates Dave.

Which is really funny, I find, because she's known him longer than all the rest of us put together. The girl who's known him for the longest, and gotten to know him the best by observing his actions, hates the dude's guts.

We'll see how it pans out.

Its a weird feeling, but I almost want Dave and Kat to work out for the next few months at least. Before, I wanted them to crash and burn ASAP... but now, I want them to survive at least long enough for me to move. I don't want to be put through the emotional bullshit if they break up. I don't want to wonder about how she feels about me; or if she tries to come back, the emotions that would come from that.

Events in my life have been set in motion, largely by her selfish actions, that I simply can't stop with the press of a button. I can't just say "Oh, no moving to Kelowna for me. Kat wants me back." Thats fucking ridiculous. But love will fuck with me, love will do its best to make me stay.

I hope that they survive long enough for me to get the fuck out of blast radius.