So all is good now....spoke to Jo today and had a nice,long convo with her both agreed it was good to have a long chat again :) and im seeing her tomorrow..yes JO out of bed IN THE MORNING!!! lol only joking hun.Hopefully am gonna be out on Saturday(after i had a go at ste... sorry dearest..i'll make it up to you ;) ) So....hope everyone has a brilliant Christmas...yes even you Caddy...and a spectacular New Year-hope you all get the fresh start you want...love and hugs and kisses(and nookie....only for Ste ...hehe) love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!