Do I break my own heart and let her go or do I break hers by haveing her stay with me. Both chioces I think would tare me apart. Both lead to many unwanted tears. She doesnt want to be with me anymore but I dont want to let her go I know that in the end I will probably break down and make what most would call the right cioce but I am selfish I dont want to have ot hurt I dont want to have to let her go but this is something I know I can just be selfish about I have her to think about and what would be best for our little girl. Would it be right to force her to grow up in a family where her mother doesnt want to be there. What do I do how do you make a chioce like this how do tell the person that you care for most that they can leave and go home when in your heart their home is with you. Blair I just want you to know that I love you with all my heart. And I really dont want to lose you! ; ;