my boyfriend last night told me i was 2 things. the first thing i am is possessive. and the second thing that i do is i dont want him to be with his family. like i dont want him to spend time with them. apparently cuz i wanted to get off the phone last night is why i dont want him to have a relationship with his family. how unbelieveably gay is that? the whole possessive thing, i dont know how i am. i never thought i was. but apparently i am. i thought possessive ppl didnt let their boyfriends do stuff. he brought up a time when i didnt want him to go to his bro's college cuz i knew he would get hit on. well he went to a frat/sorority party, got drunk, and woke up not remembering how he had gotten there. hm...forgive me if that made me a little mad. but other than that i didnt realize i was being that way. and about his parents...lol how big of a bitch am i? apparently i dont want my boyfriend to spend time with his mom and dad. i 110% do not have a problem with that or have i ever had a problem with that or have i ever even complained about that. why the hell would i? he just like attacked me last night. out of nowhere. like i'm the worst person ever or something. the only problem i ever had was when i thought his mom was like having a competition with me, she would obviously win, and the time he ignored me in his mom's car. when we got up to his room that day, he asked me if i was mad cuz he talked to his mom. lol. no damnit i dont care if he talks to his mom. but ignoring me was pretty shitty and i'm not entirely sure why he did it but he still did. anyway, so he like threw all this down my throat and called me a baby a lot cuz i kept saying ok or i'm sorry or cuz i was taking it to heart. excuse me for taking it to heart when the things i'm being accused of are pretty shitty. i dont want him to spend time with his family? seriously how lame does that sound? as for the possessiveness, i dont even want to see him. if i'm being possessive i almost want to say thats fine, go do whatever u want in the world, but i'm not gonna hang with u cuz i dont want to be that way towards u. yea i am being a little immature about this but....it hurts and i feel so stupid. he said he cant wait till i tell him something that bothers me so he can be a fucking baby like i am. nice. perhaps if he had said it in a nicer way, i wouldnt have gotten so upset. jamming it down someone's throat sure isnt the way to go. anyways, thats all for now. i quit my job and i couldnt be happier. :)