Take things slow. Take the time to think about the situation before you get all psychotic and let your emotions take control of you. Chill out. One moment is not everything. One missed chance is not the end of the world. There will be other times. Be patient. Good things come to those who wait. Impatience is also bad for your heart, your life, your relationships, your spirit and your physical appearance. To quote a friend: You live happier by not thinking that people or situations are against you. The best feelings and lessons are manifested through time. Word.