Went to Sandy's to pick up the baby and she started in on the whole Sam, Steph and Jared thing...and I was like "This whole thing would NOT be happening if STEPH had a little more respect for other people and kept her freakin' mouth shut!". She shut up after that and left it alone. Because I'm right. She said that Sam said "She didn't have an Aunt Sandy anymore..." She basically started shit talking and I was like "Whoa whoa whoa. I don't know anything about this No Aunt Sandy thing, but Cricket shouldn't have said what she said and Steph either." I mean really, what was the point in reeling in on me about what Sam said to HER. If that is how she feels then she feels it for a reason. Maybe Sandy should re-evaluate her family conduct and be a little more upfront and real and a little less "unconfrontational". So she SAYS. what ever Anyway, I got tired of hearing it and and was like "All I know is that if Jared wants to have a relationship what so ever with Steph and anyone else that has made my life harder than it already is, then I am done with him. Levi doesn't need her, I don't need her, nor do we need anyone else besides Sam and his brothers. As far as I am concerned, Steph should be dead to him and I am ganna let him make the choice as to whether or not he wants to continue talking to her. He is saying that SHE wrote him...so one of you two (meaning Sandy or Steph) is either lying or don't know what the fuck you are talking about. AND this whole thing would not be happening if STEPH, as USUAL, stayed at home and minded her own business." she shut up and I left with the kids. because she knew I was right. well, now I need a drink and a good nights sleep...oh and help writting a letter.... the party is here. B