i feel soo bad. all of the people around me are having so many problems and i dont know what to do. i'm not really that close to them, so we dont really talk about stuff like that, but i can tell that stuff is going on in their life that is making them upset, but i havent been through all the stuff they are going through so i dont know how to help, or even if i should help. i want to ask them what is wrong, but i feel like that will be invading their space, and the last thing i want them to do is pull away from me. grrr....