I;ve always ntocied when a couple breaks up, a friend or soemone who hears about it says...."Theres other fish in the sea, go fishing tomorrow." Saying you know its the other persons loss...blah blah blah. Well I know that Michael doesnt want to go back out with me, and I'm sick of dwelling and throwing pity parties for myself. I want to be motivated have something to do, someone to talk to and such. So I told all my friends I'm moving on, and thanked them for their support when the break-up happened to get a totally odd reaction...They all think I NEVER even loved Mike, because I seemed to be over it too fast. Are they trying to say I rode Mikes coat-tail until the swishing got to rough. Now a friend whos opnion I value very well told me that, and I appreciate it, but it makes me go back to my whole judgemental issue. I hate being judged, and now I think everyone is going to think I never loved Mike, but I did, I do. The Love may not be the same but I know I would still do antyhing for him if he asked...this is just like several of my others friends too, remember friends are true love... Well I know if I dont talk things over with Chase soon he'll be gone forever and I'll regret being quiet, ot riding the wave out. But I'm also afriad people will think I never loved Mike....I'm afriad Mike will think I never loved Mike.... What shall I do? Please help your fellow Super Hero for she is plagued witha riddle she cannot solve. I appreciate it all your guys....every last bit of advice. Until tomorrow then, Your confused Superman