I've noticed that some unamed groups of people are stating "you will go to hell if you don'tblah blah blah." OR "You are a sinner, you are evil blah blah blah." The blahs are when I stopped reading or listening. If you want people to come to your religion--or at least listen to you, you don't start out your quest with negatives. Start out on thier level---where they are-not where ever you feel like it. Don't assume anything.Ask them what do you know about such and such. If they are even interested they will tell you. In my own opinion actions are better. If you act in a certain way and aren't hypocriticl thats what catches my attention. It is easy to talk and tell people they are going to hell and then go to a party, or have sex or WHATEVER, I understand we are humans and not perfect but that doesn't mean we should go looking for bad stuff to do. Sorry thats been bothering me, I hate hypocrits---yes I know I am one too but I try not to do it purposefully.