this is just cruel. how hard would it have been for him to say that he didnt wanna come over and hang out if he clearly didnt want to??? honestly, this is just mean, avoiding the subject hurts a lot more than telling it to me straight that he doesnt wanna hang out. why do guys seem to think that its easier to avoid us? then we get even more pissed than we would have been if they had just told us, coz we're pissed about what they think AND that they were cowardly enough to avoid us. stupid bastards.