Over the years I have learned a lot from good and bad experiences, experiences in friendships, experiences with lovers and fuckers, and just experiences with life. But mostly I have learned how to not get hurt, It took me a long time to gain that ability and it is not easy to just let things go, but once you are able “not care”, walk away and forget it you will understand. It is a wonderful feeling. This is not just a skill for lovers and fuckers but life and friends as well. Here is something that really happened to me, I was interested in a guy and my friend knew it, guess what happen? She went after him, even after she knew him and I were hanging out and hooking up, and like every other fucker he went after her as well, double whammy on this one, A. shitty friend B. just you’re average fucker. Here is what to do, FUCK THEM, if she wants to do that, whatever go have you’re fun but I’m done with you, and if he is going to be like that, it’s not worth my time. Listen ladies, don’t go throwing your heart out on guys who are going to do this to you, and don’t stay “BFFs” with someone who is just going to fuck you over. Learn the tricks of the trade, wash your hands of them, delete their number if you have too, walk away and forget it.
Where did I learn this? I went through years of shit with my ex fucker and ex bitches, I used to get so hurt and upset but not anymore. There is no changing people who don’t want to change, it is what it is, you can either get hurt about it and try to fix things and keep getting hurt and let down, or you can be the strong person and say you know what this is not fucking right and I am not going to take this shit and leave, no friendship, no lover and no fucker is worth that.
No attachment, no bullshit, no lies, no ticks, no games= no worries.
Go on and call me jaded, because I know I am not, I have based my choices and decisions on facts. Just because I have learned to not care and to not let shit get to me does not mean I am cold or jaded, it means I am a strong person, I know what I want in my life, and I know what I don’t want in my life, and the shit I don’t want I drop. No matter how much like the person or thing, I drop it, once I am given a reason and it occurs more than it should sorry times up, you lose. BUH bye.