Well, As you can see, justadream is on the friends list. That is all we are going to be. And that is on a trial basis. I was at the restraunt with some friends after going out the other night and she messaged me. One of the people at the table grabbed my phone to my objection, and said that they would message back for me, and asked what I wanted to say. This went back and forth for awhile, and about the time we were going to leave, some more messaging went back and forth. Apperently someone at the table thought they were being cute, cause what I was told was going back and forth wasn't. Instead a rude, crude, childish exchange was happening. I didn't know this until later when I looked at my sent and recieved messages. Well, needless to say a certain someone at my table got an earful at 4:30. In the morning. Anyhow, then justadream and I got into it over the messaging.....honestly, I tried to play it off, roll with it, hoping it'd just go away. It didn't, and I told her what happened. She was pissed, I was pissed, oh well, shit happens. Anyhow, we finally started speaking on the phone, and quit that stupid text messaging. We talked on and off most of the day, and decided that we would try to be friends. She knows that I am going to be dating a bit - nothing big - honestly, I'm looking for someone to settle down with, but I am in NO hurry whatsoever. She said she would not date for awhile. I was glad to hear this, as I really feel like she needs some time to be alone, to peer inside, to find herself, get to know herself, and enjoy just being herself. This is a hard task, and I really respect her for trying to do what is right, not rebounding, not getting over one by getting under another. In this day and age, that is the norm, and it's a VERY easy pattern to fall into. Anyhow, that is where we stand. Ya'll take care, and God bless.