My diary has been friends-only. I use it to vent, say what I need to get off my chest, and occasionally get feedback. I have it set as friends-only because the majority of the world does not need to know what I'm thinking, feeling or doing. I have deemed the people on my list as being trustworthy....apparently I chose wrong. I thought you all respected privacy, and knew that it isn't right to spread information around about other people. I will be ceasing use of this diary, as I do not want any more drama, and someone here, maybe several people, have only butted in where they do not belong. I have greatly enjoyed sitD, and I'm sorry that I've let whoever it may be ruin it for me. Call me childish, say whatever you'd like--I do what I need to do to protect myself, to look out for me. ***Added: I haven't said anything bad about Gerd in my public entries. If I had something negative about him to say, I made it private. He has decided to lay it all bare and make his public entries private, I'm going to show the same courtesy. Nothing to lose, so there's nothing to hide.