I have a really dumb problem; I don't know what flirting is. The reason why this is a problem is because I don't know how to handle myself around the boyfriends of my friends. You see, even though I know that even if I did end up flirting with said guys it wouldn't cause them to fall for me because I'm sure that none of them are interested in me, I just don't want to accidentally cause a problem by looking like I'm going after them. This would make my friend mad for obvious reasons. Also, I'm not romantically interested in any of these guys. So I have no desire to make them think I'm interested. Okay, so I did think that one of them - Greg who is going out with Anna - was cute and I had a very minor crush on him for a while, but since I reconnected with Tyler that crush has died. Also, I'm not that attracted to Tyler any more - yes I still think about him more than I should but I've cooled off a lot.
I like Greg and think it would be neat to be friends with him because he - like Bob and Steve K. - is constantly coming up with crazy ideas and I appreciate that in a person. Unfortunately, I don't know how to interact with him anymore because I don't know where the acceptable interaction line is. So, I act very coldly around him because I don't know what to do - this is the way that I usually act around people who I don't know how to interact with. This is mean of me though. I just wish I knew a better alternative than acting cold.
~Amyelk Out
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