UGH...people need to grow up. i just don't get it. OK, so tomorrow is my cousins graduation party and a lot of my family that i haven't seen in a long time are going. Well, my aunt is going, and my mom is mad that she is because, well, she "has no feelings for her what-so-ever." I dunno, this just annoys me because...people CHANGE. Life is too damn short to be holding grudges. You don't know what could happen to someone, and to hate someone for something that happened a long time ago is SO STUPID. Now, I know a lot of you are thinking, "Well, doesn't Tammy hate Justine." Hmmm...this is a difficult thing to explain, it's not that I hate her..it's that I just don't want to be friends with her, and i see no problem with that. I mean, if something happened to her, I would be upset. It's not like I want her to die or anything. I'm sure I've said some mean things about her, but they were out of anger. It just bugs me that people can't get over stupid shit that has happened in the past and just GROW UP. Like, I have a strong belief that family is the most important thing in your life, because after high school and after childhood, your family will ALWAYS be around. And even tho she is only my aunt by marriage, she's still my aunt...I dunno really how to explain it, I'm just really annoyed by the situation and that fact that people have such closed minds. I dunno, people change...maybe she wants to patch things up and become part of the family again, or maybe she's sick of all this stupid petty highschool like bullshit. Rumors go around, and they are changed into different stories by the time they get to the last person. It could start out as "She had a bad hair day" and go to "She fell into a pit of fire and burned off all of her hair." I just think someone should think before they act, speak, and make opinions. You don't know the truth, and you don't know both sides of a story. I really want to stay in contact with my entire family, and I find it kind of silly that I'm the only one who sees how childish this whole situation is. Ugh, I'm done...bye.