No matter how perfect and happy you are with your life, all it takes is one bad choice to change everything and take life out of your control. Today I picked up the phone and herd words no one ever wants to hear someone say they love and cherish so much. "I'm HIV positive" We sometimes forget that we're only human and not invisible and sometimes we let our emotions get in the way of our mind and its intelligences that is right from what is wrong. And how something so simple that we all love to do can have such devastating destructive consequences that will never go away and life that you know, is forever changed. You can't cheat at life. He lost and now life is going to win even faster than expected. Choices are gifts that life hands us and sometimes your heart can kill you as much as it keeps you alive.