No one can never be them selves. They have to dwell in the shadows of someone or something. We seek for ways on how to dress and look like the beautiful, skinny, women on the cover of the magazines. But one good look at themselves, makes them depress. No one can answer who they really are. Simple reason, everyone will state something different and someone else won’t agree. Opinions in America don’t matter. You state what you feel, your put down by some idiot who wants to feel higher than you. Labels are another problem. As much as we hate to be labeled , we label our selves. By the clothes we wear, by our attitudes, even by the people we talk to. However, giving us a list of rules telling us what is what, is just mechanical. Telling us what bands are more hardcore than others isn’t going to make you God. If I choose to listen to Britney Spears and Guns N Roses, why should that concern you enough to provoke anger in yourself to call me childish names? We all have been told to be our selves. Easier said than done. However, just turn off MTV for a while, close that Vogue magazine and focus on what you want. Not what some teen pop princess tells you.