Only the losers win

Feeling: disillusioned
why is my ex-boyfriend such an asshole? i didn't think it was possible for a person to be so bouyant and yet so belligerent at the same time. he defies all rational ways of social interaction, yet he still expects people to put up with it. and they do. why is it? why do i put up with it? why, after all the shit i've been through and everything he's put me through, why do i feel attached to him? i gave my heart to him once. now it feels like a little piece of me will always be enamored with him - and that's not a good thing. i want to be free of him. i wish he'd just graduate already; i wish he'd gone to a different school when he moved to his mom's. i wish he'd stop being such a pain in the ass. i wish we could be friends, because it might put my insane, unjustifiable infatuation to rest.
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from what i know, i don't think you have to necessarily be 'free' of him. i don't think it's so detrimental to you and your life if you reasonably have a niche in your heart/mind for anything having to do with him. it's vastly different, but i could argue the gist of your entry with 'beltloops' lol. and i'm not siding w/you or your ex - but just make sure not to let any personal thoughts of him to cloud your judgment of who he is.
[Anonymous]
I used to have the same probelm with me ex. I did everything for him and in the end I was left with a broken heart. Sometimes I wish I could just wake up and rewind the past few years and not see him...but I can't. I was in love and its take time to get over stuff like that. Years in my situation! Honeslty, the best way to forget about this is to avoid all communication with him! Its the only way...and trust me, you will feel alot better.
I know I don't know you but if you need anything or want to talk...I'm here!