what do you think would be worse? one thing affecting many people or many things affecting one person? Mr. Hartman thinks that one thing affecting many people wouldn't as bad because all the affected people could help one another through the problems...on the other hand the one person being affected by many things may feel isolated and feel like they have noone to talk to...thus bottling things up inside...just to get worse....and someone made the remark that the person can choose to be isolated...but that isnt true....people have isolated that person...how can that person isolate themselves...it's really a controversial question and i'd like to hear some input.....