let's suppose that You ask a guy that you know likes you to the girls Choice and during your dance he looks you straight in the eyes and calls you beautiful/gorgeous/stunning in your dress then after a bit of a silence... he starts to lean in more towards you are you going to let him kiss you? then lets suppose that you do, just for the sake of interest. Then what? What does that make you? Does it make the two of you an item? What if there is another guy that you asked before, to a diffent date. You like him the same amount as the kid that just kissed you? Does that make you a player? My Answer: Don't let him Kiss you Decide between the two guys before that ever happens that you kiss one. And if you do then you are in a rut.... YOU'RE DOOMED! she's doomed and all the rest of us are doomed! ...Notice that i didn't say what kind of doom so no matter what happens i predicted it....How Very WISE of me!