why is it that love can scare us out of being with the people we care about most? what if there is a connection between two people and its felt by both, but the other person has a fear of commitment? i know he wants to be with me.. but his fear is eating him alive.. and its hurting him.. i wish i could help him with his fear.. i know and understand what hes going through because i was there once.. im not quite sure what i did.. but i through away my fear and just went with it.. but its different with him. his fear is pushing him back from what he really wants.. and it sucks cause we both want the same thing.. eachother.. i dont know how i can make him comfotable with me.. im not like other girls.. i dont need to be around him 24/7.. he would be free to do what he wanted when he wanted to.. except if it involed cheating on me.. i dont know.. im not really sure what to do.. i keep telling him that i know that something is there. something strong. and he feels it too.. so.. what happens next?