ive never dealt with this sort of thing, i guess you can say ive been very lucky. but i can see her health declining now, i try to deny that i notice, bc someone has to be strong for her when she cant be strong for herself. I visit her constantly to make sure shes never alone. she would do the same for me and has. she has always been my hope. im not sure what to say or do. if i could give her my lungs i would but its no use anymore. this isnt something i can or want to prepare for. im scared i might lose her soon.