Jesus, I've been trying to figure out my sexuality and I can't get it. People keep telling me I'm bisexual, but.. I thought I was straight, and now im not so sure. I have made out with girls, but that's usually because of spin-the-bottle, dares, or out of sheer boredom. So it doesn't count, does it? I mean, if you do stuff with girls, it doesn't mean anything unless you "feel something", right? And I've never felt anything. Just a kiss, no shock, no woozy sensation, no feeling weak, just plain, boring, emotionless kissing. The only person I have "felt something" with when I kissed was my 'ex-boyfriend' (very technically, he wasn't that). But was that because I like men, or was that simply because I loved the person I was kissing? For example, perhaps the reason I've never "felt anything" with the girls I've kissed is because I didn't have feelings of affection for them. I mean, I find both girls and boys attractive. But girls always just say stuff like "oh shes so pretty" very offhandedly... I'm so confused, do they mean it? Because I always do... I am seriously sometimes attracted to girls; if I ever kissed one of the girls that I had a crush on, THEN would I "feel something"? God, I'm so confused. I don't think it's weird to do stuff with girls, although I would feel really uncomfortable doing anything other than kissing or cuddling, and I just feel awkward saying I'm bisexual. Do i feel awkward because i'm NOT bisexual, because i DONT WANT to be bisexual, or simply because i'm in denial and dont' want people to know? someone help me figure it out... or relate, tell me about your experiances... I would really, really appreciate that. Thank you so much.