so I got the coolest offer today... my brother wants me to go with him to San Diego... but I mean to live... the ONLY thing holding me back is my dad... what if??? that's what keeps going through my head... but I can't sit and wait for life to happen to me... anything I have built for myself here I can rebuild there and better... I know I tend to run from my problems... but this time I am not... I just want to be happy... for real this time... and the only way to do that is to COMPLETELY let go of my past... I disappear... that's what I do... any advice?