Ok, to make one more entry about Mrs. Forgione... Wow, I think my heart must have stopped when i first heard, and then it took another few hours for it to soak in... I dont think i blinked through that whole time, still in like a pts coma... It's shocking... completely unexpected and soooo sad... Then theres that period of thinking it must just be some sick joke... And I want to help so bad, Im just sitting here like twitching and crying inside, wanting soo badly to help but not knowing what i can do... Afraid that I'll just make it worse. And here my parents are giving me sporadic lectures. Being a pastor my dad has dealt with death far too many times... and its suddenly hitting really close to home now. It seems like everybody's dying. And that house that burned down... There was just a tsunami in Asia and 80000 people were killed. And how many Iraqi citizens? These nameless people, somebody will miss all of them. But you don't think about it until somebody you knew & loved dies, and you are absolutely clueless as to what to do about it! My heart goes out to the family, and she will certainly be sorely missed. *dont take anything for granted* -says kat. its true. I love you guys!