my weekend took a turn for the worst when i got arrested at around 01:45 AM on sunday! after losing my temper as a result of being bullied by my girlfriend's brother, i left their house and walked around for four hours, cooling down, in which time helen (my gf), had run around searching for me everywhere! when i got back, i lost my temper again after helen had informed me that her family had expected an apology. i got into an extremely heated argument with both of her parents regarding the disgusting state of their home and the fact that they have done a horrendous job raising their children. helen was off to the side crying, i went after her and she took me by the hand and we started walking away, deciding that it would be best to stay away from this confrontation. her father, however, the dumb fucking sonofabitch that he is, decided to follow us, thusly bringing the confrontation to us. when he had caught up with us, he was on his mobile telephone, speaking to his wife. walking just a couple of feet behind me, he was talking obviously loud enough for me to overhear the things he was saying about me: "i'm going to catch that devious little bastard, that son of a bitch isn't going to steal my daughter." and other such atrocities. this was an obvious taunt, to which i responded by turning around and pushing him back, as if to say, 'step back motherfucker.' i took a swing at him and missed. still on the phone to his wife, he began to laugh mockingly, and said, "haha, he missed me, cath!" and as a result of this taunt, i took several more swings, though in the furious state that i was in, hard to say whether i connected and where. after this, i pushed him down and he pulled me onto the ground with him. i, however, simply wanted to get away from this confrontation, as i had already had run-ins with john q. law! in attempt to get myself on my feet, i inadvertently stood on the old man. helen and i walked a few feet and i shouted back, "you're fucking with the wrong white south african boy!" several minutes later, police pulled up to us on the side of the road and arrested me. i later discovered that the old man claimed i had kicked him whilst he was down, and had simply left out all of his taunting and intimidation when the police had asked him for a statement. the family once again expects an apology. apology for an attack that was instigated by the family themselves? i say they can fuck themselves to hell. : P