Dear "Showdown Throwdown", stop being a fictional character and start being real, k? Or not really. But I'd at least like there to be some Christian guys in the scene. I'd really just like that to be real. Last week, I met a boy at a concert. Some stuff happened. I'm not going to get all specific, and I didn't expect anything, and I'm really not upset, but just another example of "if a boy listens to the same music as you...don't date him." Funny thing is this guy said he was a Christian. It's just confirmation that I officially now cannot date anyone who shares my interests. hm. Let's go back to that list, shall we? the one I made way long ago when I was really depressed? 1. Never date a boy shorter than me. 2. Never date a boy who straightens his hair, paints his nails black, wears girls pants, or anything else feminine.okay, broke that rule. 3. Never date a boy you meet at a concert.k, broke that too... 4. Never date someone who smokes.Wow, fail. 5. Never date someone who doesn't have enough respect for you (or women in general) to wait until after your first date to feel you up.wow. When did I become a slut? 6. Never date a scene kid.oh god. I really thought I was done with scene kids. I really thought that with enough pounding into my brain that I don't like them or their silly girl's pants that I would totally find them unnatractive. But then we all have our weaknesses. dammit. NEVER AGAIN. Seriously...if I start dating a scene kid again, no matter what kind of guy he is, will you please punch me? kthanks. 7. Never date someone for one redeemable quality. note to self: "They are attractive and like the same music you do" is not redeemable. 8. Never date someone who makes fun of you for liking The Used, yet likes Blink 182. 9. Never date someone who's okay with you hurting yourself. wow, I'm not the type of girl who sticks to her principles I guess. fail. Dammit. How is it that at a Christian concert I totally pick out the one asshole? dammitdammitdammit.