This one is for the suckers who can't say things to people's faces. If you've got something to say to someone, don't go saying it to one of their friends because more likely than not, it will get back to them and they will be pissed. Especially me. Seriously. If you're going to say crap about me behind my back you'd better just say it to my face, because if you don't and I find out, especially if you're someone I thought I could trust, I will find out, and you'll be hard-pressed to earn back my trust. Learn to get over yourselves and just say whatever it is to whoever it is's face. Don't use things that people have told you in confidence to justify your actions.