we're done. hes gone. we got into it on weds, our valentines day, but thats a long story but it ended with him snapping at me, me getting mad, him getting mad that i was mad, then ignoring me til today when i cornered him at work. i asked him what his problem was, and he saud he was thinking and, even though i already knew what it was about, i asked anyways, and he said that he wasnt sure if i was right for him (this wasnt the only thing he said, but thats the main jist of it). so i replied that i didnt think he was right for anyone, but thats ok, beause i can do better. and i walked away. ive cried and cried the past two days. but i finally decided to take everyones advice. im glad i did. ive already replaced the super cute gorilla he got me, its about to go up in the closet. i feel so alone. i want to cry, my eyes will well up, but then nothing. i miss more the idea of him than him actually. and i know this. hes: a. a drunk b. stuck in a dead beat job c. not ambitious in the least i could go on. last night i sat there and weighed the pros and the cons. i only came up with 3-4 pros. thats not good. ill live. i got my hair cut and my eyebrows waxed today though. had to look good before i dumped the bf.