Haha, yea, you deserve a holiday after all this stress...And I hope, as always, everything is good with your mother...And nothing's a burden to me unless I'VE caused it in some way, and I haven't caused it, and I also can't help it...So I'm just listening and tryin to help you any way I can...Which, since I haven't experienced a loved one with cancer, is my support and prayers! :)