Do you ever notice that when you get close to something that you really want, it gets ripped away. this is almost inevitable. you will have a good thing going, and it just. . .*poof* Disappears. Its really upsetting. This is exactly why we can never get what we want. We'll have it for a while, but its only a tease. I think that this is just a test. It is testing us to see if we really appreciate all that we have in our lives, or if we just take for granted the many blessings that we are awarded. Whether it is an object, or a person, or whatever...we need to learn to appreciate the good things in life. . . bc you never know when they will be. . . ripped away.