"Yea, anyway, I was merely noticing how it is the way it is (from my personal experiences of course) when it dawned upon me that it is more than a feeling. I know that people say that all the time "more than a feeling" but seriously think about it. It's more than a feeling, more than a state of being and more than en emotion. Happiness is a feeling; you can feel happy. you can have a happy state-of-mind, and you can be going through a happy moment. With love, you can do all of that but you can also be IN love. You cannot be IN happy. just doesn't make sense. MAybe some illiterate / improper grammer fellow coined the phrase, but the fact is that it's here to stay. But the quesiton is what does it truly mean to be IN love? Certainly more than just loving a person. Hel, most people would say that they love their dog, or their pet gold fish, but they would never say that they're in love with their goldfish. Just isn't happenin' folks. So what is this difference? What makes this so special and so different than love. " wow. damn this kid is a gooood writer. you should read his stuff. its long, but well worth it. i advise you all to go to his site. he is amazing. its -unspotted- without the little line thingys. i just think they look cool. haha. GO READ!! -later-