i could just be honest and say these things i think about you

do you want to hear them or shall i wait and try and read you

i think thats lame i can be brave and say what i think

you should be brave and listen to what i think

and then tell me what you think in return cos that's fair

but we should write it down and pass it to each other

in note form, so that if i go first and say too much then you can't back away

and if we promise to be honest and write down the longest sentences we can think of that includes all the knowledge that we contain about each other then we can miss out on all those teething problems and go straight to being on it and in it and living and breathing and embracing and respecting and injecting the passion we hold inside into each others veins and itll be like electricity flowing through the mains and out a socket and we just gotta plug in and soak it up spend all our time talking without words and touching each others hearts with whispers

today i learned, we have options. the one love is out there. but that is not the BE ALL and END ALL. we have options. i can be fulfilled by my one love. but yet crave a little more. we have options!

do not fear or balk at the idea of time for yourself. time to top up your needs. you can be in love, but still need something your lover cannot give you. this is ok. we do not have to do our need shopping all at one supermarket.

how do you know what you need? this is experience, trials and errors through our lives. i need a companion to experience the outdoors with. i understand that my lover may not be this person, and it will not be the end of the world.

i understand also that i may need something, and try to get it from my lover, whom does not need it but wants to please me and so does. this leads to heartache. we must communicate our needs.

if a need is not met. meet it. fulfillment is easy. but neglection of a need is easier. work hard to meet your needs, and then be happy.

we are all in this together, lets work it out!